Thursday, February 26, 2009

To Sleep or Not to Sleep?

Well, there's really no question. Eliana chooses NOT to sleep. I think she's having nightmares as she wakes up screaming, "No! No! Nooooo! Moommmmmmy!" Even though, "THEY" say she's too young to have nightmares, we all know that MY child is advanced for her age. *wink* *wink* It's definitely not Night Terrors because I can console her very easily. I thought it was Mommy Separation Anxiety but the constant No-ing at night has me a bit worried. I've been trying to spend quality time playing in her room during the day hoping that will help.

Her lack of sleep has created some very grouchy (normal) 2-year-old behaviors. I am finding myself having to chose my battles. So, if she wants to go outside and play on the swingset in just a diaper, a t-shirt and a pair of plastic purple heels, she will do just that!

Really, I just want to sleep all night again, although, I'm such a light sleeper that if it isn't her waking me up, it would be Matt or the dogs, or the wind, or a car driving by.

Or someone's phone ringing 5 miles down the road. Really, I'm that bad.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

My boy Murray just keeps truckin' along.

Murray and Dudley had their annual check-ups last week. The vet tech called me the other day with their bloodwork results. I was shocked because I haven't talked to a vet tech about bloodwork in a year, it's always been the actual vet who called. The vet has always had to call to explain Murray's complicated results.

The tech called to tell us that his bloodwork is "normal for his condition and in fact has slightly improved"!!!!

(Dudley's was also normal and he's still fat.)

Monday, February 23, 2009

Getting Older

I aged today.

I had my first mammogram this morning. NO! I am NOT 40, yet, but "they" (I guess the medical community) suggest you get a baseline mammogram at age 35. I'm 36 so there you go.

Murray and Dudley had their annual check-up today. Murray has been through all the testing he could ever possibly have but today, they recommend GERIATRIC testing for Dudley. Poor baby is only 8 years old and a healthy maltese has a lifespan of at about 15 years. I speak for D when I say, PUHLEEEEASSSSE, spare us the geriatric testing.

And the worst part of today, happened tonight. We always rock Eliana before bedtime. It's always been one of my favorite times with her. Lately, she's been wanting to "sit aside you" but usually she ends up on my lap. Tonight, she curled up, "aside me" and actually fell asleep cuddled up against me.

As I write this, I realize that Sasha is closer to 7 than 6.

I think I'm going to go eat a box of Thin Mints, now. Oh great, but I'm thinking about how my metabolism has slowed and that I have a dinner tomorrow night and the dress is "business casual" and that I have nothing business casual and even if I did, once I finish my Thin Mints, it won't fit anyway.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Wanna see a card trick? Wanna see a 20 MINUTES LONG card trick?


Sasha claimed she knew a card trick. She took the WHOLE deck and told me to pick a card, look at it, and put it back in. I did. She then spread out the cards in her hands:

S: (picking a random card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.
S: (picking another card) Is this your card?
Mom: No.

At this point, you would think she would have gotten frustrated and give up. You would also think that I should have been the better person, a mom, and just said, "Yes" to any random card. She didn't get frustrated and I didn't give in so we continued.
S: Well, what card did you pick?
Mom: The Queen of Hearts (and yes, the song was running through my head)
S: (looking through the cards, again, and pulling out a King of clubs) Is this your card?
Mom: No, Sasha, I had the QUEEN of HEARTS and that is a King.
S: (looking through the cards and pulling out a Queen of Spades) Is this your card?
Mom: No, Sasha I had the Queen of HEARTS. Do you see any hearts on there?

She FINALLY found the Queen of Hearts, pulled it out, and said, "Is this your card?"

Apparently, she had done her card trick to Matt earlier that morning and just by chance picked his card after 3 tries, giving her a false sense of security. Just know that if you see Sasha anytime soon, make sure you have at least 20 minutes to spare.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Facebook

I HEART it a lot. I have reconnected with long lost friends and I keep in touch with current friends despite our crazy-busy lives. One of the most recent "fun things" going around Facebook was to post 25 Random Things about You. I spent some time completing my list and I wanted to share it with my Blogger friends, too! Here you go:
1. I wrote this in Microsoft Word first so I could edit it before posting on Facebook.

2. I have been tagged(This is what you do on Facebook when you want someone else to write the same thing, you tag them.) by a lot of people so I thought it was time to write this. At first I resisted but then realized how much I enjoyed reading their “25 Random Things”. I'm only tagging 2 people because they are the 2 I know will do it!!

3. I have worked a ton of jobs in my life but teaching is in my heart. Candy store, Foot Locker, a neurology dept in a psychiatric hospital, a fundraising office, telefundraiser (2 weeks is all I lasted, it was awful), coffee cart (before my morning classes in college. I would go to my first class vibrating from drinking so much coffee!), volunteer office in college, 2 different day cares, nanny, Sylvan Learning Center (Don’t ever send your children there, it’s a waste of money), private tutor (NOT a waste of money if your child needs help), some government office in DC one summer writing abstracts from Science Teaching articles, a gym daycare (I got a free membership at a fabulous gym.), some random online jobs, and teacher.

4. I have a lot of good friends but only 3 BFFs (my mom, my sister, and my Laura).

5. I LOVE all animals but I am obsessed with dogs. I have 2 dogs, Murray and Dudley and would love 2-3 more!

6. I am allergic to dogs and cats but my boys (Maltese) don’t bother me.

7. I am very close to all of my family and family friends, no matter how crazy they are, and I wish we lived closer to them.

8. Sasha has only been in our family since she was 3 ½ years old (only 3 years ago) but it feels like a lifetime and I mean that in a good way!

9. Eliana came home with us when she was 3 days old and I enjoyed every second of her newborn-ness, even when she would wake me over and over and over again in the middle of the night.

10. I want to adopt again in a year or two. I want another baby.

11. I would like to work with adoptive parents some day.

12. I LOVE to nap. My mom said when I was a baby; I took 3 naps a day for a long time. Before kids, I could easily take a morning and an afternoon nap!

13. Matt and I went to Rome in 2004. There are no words to describe the city. I really hope to go back someday.

14. The best meal I ever ate was in Old San Juan, salmon and “smashed potatoes”. It was at an out of the way small restaurant. We really followed our noses to it. It was outdoors but the vines and trees made a cover over us. The food, the atmosphere and the company made for the perfect meal.

15. I like to shop online and find lots of really cool things but I don’t really like to shop in person. It takes too long.

16. On the other hand, I could spend hours in a book store.

17. I LOVE to read. I read all the time. My favorite books are Island of the Blue Dolphins (I can’t wait until Sasha is a bit older so I can read it her.), Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Handmaid’s Tale. I also love me some Harry Potter and the Twilight Series.

18. I’ve only ever read 3 books more than one time: Island of the Blue Dolphins, Their Eyes Were Watching God and The Handmaid’s Tale.

19. I started a blog in January 2005. I’ve been tracking it since December 2005 and it has been visited over 54,000 times! (Link is in my profile if you are interested!)

20. I am a bit of a hippy…at heart, anyway. I recycle everything I can. Eliana wears cloth diapers. We use reusable bags and water bottles. I use organic shampoos and homemade soaps. But I do believe in chemicals! LOL

21. I LOVE a good glass (or 4) of wine. My favorite wine is Cabernet.

22. My favorite dessert is fresh out of the oven chocolate chip cookies and a big glass of milk.

23. Out of all the different doctors I go to, I HATE the dentist most of all. That’s saying a lot from someone who went through infertility testing!

24. My all-time favorite song is “Landslide”. I prefer the Stevie Nicks version but also love the Dixie Chicks and Smashing Pumpkins versions, too. Are there others I don’t know about?

25. I hate the cold but I love when it gets cold in Florida because; A. I know it won’t last long. B. I can dig out my beloved soft, warm sweaters.

It had to be done.

We followed a bit of delayed vaccination schedule with Eliana. We weren't anti-vaccine, just delayed-vaccine. The one vaccination we were most concerned about was MMR, simply because we don't know entirely everything all of Eliana's biological family's history.

We were so excited to find a pediatrician in our area who would give the vaccine in 3separate shots. She also claimed to practice a little bit of Western and Eastern medicine. She was right up our alley! We liked our current pediatrician but the 3 separate shots was important to us so we made the choice to change.

We went to our first appointment with her and it was...just ok. Eliana's 2-year appointment was the last straw. We were soooo not happy with her bedside manner, like she was rushing us out of there. She has very small practice so why was trying to get us out of there so fast?

And then at that appointment...she told us that the MMR vaccine company had stopped making the 3 separate shots (as soon as I got home I researched this and it was true). We were disappointed with that but then she continued with the fact that she didn't even have the MMR vaccine on hand because the insurance companies weren't paying her so she couldn't pay the vaccine company. Give her 4 months. WHAT??!!! But wait, there's more. Then she told us that. we.could.go.to.the.health.department.for.the.vaccine. Nice. Reeeeallly nice.

We came home, thought about it for a few days, knowing full-well that we were certainly not going to the health department for a vaccine. We both decided to go back to our old pediatrician.

Eliana got her MMR shot today. She cried hard. It broke my heart. She's so smart so she totally understood what was going to happen and I think that is what hurt me the most. It's ok, the candy I had in purse made the hurt go away.

She fell asleep during during dinner, poor baby. It was a rough day.

Finally

Sasha lost her bottom two teeth about a year ago. Ever since then, she's been constantly feeling her teeth and making us check to see if more were loose. They weren't. In fact, Matt and I actually felt the need to ask her dentist because we were a bit worried as well.

Tonight...her tooth hurt while eating pizza. IT'S A LOOSE ONE!!!! FINALLY!!! She is so excited and it wouldn't surprise me if she wiggles that puppy out really fast. That tooth doesn't have a chance.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Watch Out!

God forbid I go to the bathroom because a pile of mulch ends up on my sofa. I asked Eliana who made that mess and she said, "Ummmm....the yucky princess."

Sore Winner

She learned this from her sister. The first word she says, is "Score!"

Oh Sasha, Sasha, Sasha!

We went to Magic Kingdom on Monday. It was pretty busy, Sasha was tired, and we waited in a lot of lines.

Typical-Sasha-line-waiting-when-over-tired-behavior:


If there was anything there to touch, she would have been touching it, too. Her hands were filthy from running them up and down walls and benches. We have decided to just laugh AT her because other than going to sleep, there really is nothing you can do.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

I'm telling you this because I love you.

Disclaimer---you may get itchy and you may get grossed out but I'm writing this to educate you!!!!

I bet you noticed I was missing for a while. I wasn't taking pictures, I wasn't finding ANYTHING funny. I wasn't eating and if you want to know how serious this really was, I wasn't even drinking my wine!

"Why?" you ask.

Well, let me tell you. I wasn't going to post about this because it really was a horrible, terrible nightmare for me.

Remember this post about putting the fear of God into Sasha about lice? And then remember how relieved I was here with the letter that someone in her class had lice?

Yeah. Well...just a few weeks after that letter, Sasha was the reason the letter was sent home and parents shuddered.

Sasha.had.lice.

I was combing her hair before school and I FOUND my nightmare. I found a FEW of my nightmare. I called to Matt and he says, "Is it moving?" Uh no. I just pulled a piece of fuzz out of her hair to show you. YEAH IT IS MOVING AND OH MY GOD THERE IS ANOTHER ONE!!!! I actually had to leave the bathroom because I thought I was going to pass out or throw up or both.

Par for the course, Matt was getting ready to go out of town. I had just enough time to run to Walgreens and buy Rid (that was the only brand name I recognized) ***SHUDDER*** and a $30 electronic lice comb. Before you laugh, that electronic lice comb KICKED ASS! I actually looked up reviews on my cell phone before shelling out the dough for it and it got 5 stars in like billions of reviews. It catches the live bugs and zaps them. It's like one of those blue bug lights on a comb except it doesn't zzzzzap, it buzzes. And it really does catch and kill the live bugs.

I'm getting ahead of myself.

I really wasn't going to write about this because it really was terrible for me. I know there are worse things that could happen to your children and I hope this is the worst we ever have. In my world, at this time, it was bad. I spent a lot of time fighting back tears or just sitting down and crying because it sucked. It really sucked. After 10 years of teaching, and numerous years working with children before that, the worst I ever encountered was chicken pox my senior year of college.
Matt spent the Lice time in Miami. Yeah, he was working but I would have rather had him here.

My arms were so stiff from doing laundry, loads and loads and loads of laundry. I vacuumed the entire house every day for about almost 2 weeks. And I combed and combed and combed poor Sasha's hair. I was so tired. I was so afraid that Eliana or I were going to get it so I tried to check her hair as often as possible. Have you ever tried to look closely and longly(?) at a 2-year-old's hair? Thankfully, we were all clear. Knock on wood. (I had to add that in there for my mom's sake.)

This is getting too long as it is and my main purpose for this post is to tell you what to do if it happens to you AND to tell you what I've learned to prevent it from happening. I'm sure it doesn't surprise you to know that I have done TONS of research since that first sighting.

TREATMENT:
1. DO NOT run out and get Rid or whatever other stinking terrible chemicals there are on the shelf. There really is no need. The chemicals can't kill the eggs/nits and there are better ways to clear it up FAST. Before you run to the store, go to this site. You see, all you need is some Cetaphil Gentle Skin Cleanser.
2. You also need a GOOD lice comb. The plastic pieces of crap that come in the kits don't do anything. When I posted about the Letter that someone in Sasha's class had it, a friend of mine recommended a good comb. I actually thought to myself that I should buy it "just in case". I didn't and I really should have. If lice is common where you are, buy one. Have it on hand. Really, these combs are DA BOMB and pretty much all you really need. I had to order mine online because every drugstore and Target in the area was out. I can personally recommend the LICENDERS Comb and the Terminator Metal Comb. Yes, in addition to my $30 electronic bug zapper comb, I now also have 2 metal nit combs.
3. Comb the heck out of your child's hair. And then comb some more. Once I started using these metal combs, we had no more bugs. They are wonderful.
4. After treating your child, do laundry. Wash all bedding, even yours. I am dreading our electric and water bills this month. If you can't wash it, take it to the dry cleaner. I threw away all of our pillows but I read that you can actually just put whatever you can't wash or dry clean into the dryer on high heat for 30 minutes. I can tell you that this house has WAY too many blankets and WAY too many stuffed animals. Do NOT every buy us another stuffed animal or blanket, please! I double-bagged all of the stuffed animals. This suffocates the lice but you have to leave them bagged for at least 2 weeks in case there are any eggs that hatched. You can also put them in the dryer on high heat but again, I didn't know that until after they were all bagged up.
5. Change the child's bedding every day and wash his/her clothing every day. I made Sasha go straight to the laundry room to change after school. Then I would comb her hair and make her change again! I also put her backpack in the dryer for 20 minutes on high heat. I did this every day until I didn't see any live bugs (usually babies) for more than 3 days. (I also knew that more kids were sent home from her class that week so I was extra diligent.)
6. I vacuumed the house (especially sofas and her room and mattress) every morning after she left for school. You have to throw away the vacuum bags after using them. The guy at Sears laughed when I bought 4 2-packs. I didn't bother to explain.

PREVENTION:
1. I found the best organic haircare line to help prevent lice. Apparently, the little buggers don't like tea tree oil, citronella or rosemary oil. Fairy Tales Hair Care for Children has a line of products proven to repel lice. Needless to say, I ordered every single product...TWICE! Both bathrooms are stocked now. The best part is that the stuff smells so good. I use it, too. You can use the spray on backpacks and jackets AND it works as a bug spray, too!
2. Sasha will now have to wear her hair up every day. Braids or buns are best. We are actually having fun coming up with different styles for her hair.
3. Lice don't like dirty hair. It sounds weird, doesn't it? They can't cling to dirty hair or hair with products. So let your kids go without a shower or at least without washing their hair (they'll love you for it!) and give them a good old-fashioned hair-sprayin' every morning before school! I tell Sasha that I am shellacking her hair. Haha.
4. If you know there is an outbreak in your school (one school down here sent home 60kids with lice, 60!) get out the comb and use it a few times per week. It can't hurt.

And that's about all I have to say about that. Hopefully none of you reading this will ever have to reference back to this post. But if you do, I hope I've helped you!

May you always be lice free.
Your LiceMeister Queen

Fashionista!

Sasha's feet have grown yet again. It won't be long until she's wearing my shoes. I had to buy her new sneakers the other day because she A) Stepped in doggy-doo-doo and I was NOT going to clean up that mess (really, only Sasha could get it in every-single-groove of the shoe). and B) As previously mentioned, her feet have grown, yet again.

She put them on and ran. She said, "Mom they feel great. These are what I call 'Fashion sneakers'." So, I patted myself on the back thinking she said this because I had picked a very trendy pair of shoes she could show-off to all her friends. I know my sneakers about as well as I know my jeans, mind you, so why not pat away? So Sasha tells me about her 'Fashion Sneakers' and then takes off running. She runs right back to me saying, "I call them 'Fashion Sneakers' because they make me run really FAST! Get it? FAShion/FASt. Ok, well neither did I, but it really made me laugh. Everybody knows that new sneakers make you run faster BUT did you know that their official name was "Fashion Sneakers"?

Now, if I could only find a pair that would make me workout.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Because She Looked Exceptionally Cute This Morning

We went to an Art Party (painting and clay) AND Eliana decided not to take a nap today so as you can well imagine, she really isn't looking or acting exceptionally cute right now. She was a showstopper this morning!




Monday, February 02, 2009

We LOVE our Wii.


"Oh No! What happened?"



I love our Wii. But now I am IN LOVE with our Wii. I thought I would become obsessed with our Wii Fit but I haven't...yet...although I do hope to.

And then, yesterday, we opened Guitar Hero. I absolutely love it. Eliana thinks she loves it, too. She was waiting for her turn today while I was playing. For a while she was dancing, but then she decided to try to sing into the Whammy bar. It really made for some hard geetar playing. When she plays, her favorite part is when she does so poorly that the lead singer kicks over the microphone stand. She knows to push the green button to make the song to start over. Then we get to hear the same song over and over and over and over and.....

Mom! I need velcro!

How do you do this?

Cupcake Lovin'

Bubbe and Zayde came over to watch the Superbowl with us and brought yummy, yummy cupcakes. They just happen to be Pittsburgh colors but we Pennsylvanians have to root for our teams, even though it may not be the PA team we wanted. I couldn't get a picture of Sasha because she INHALED her cupcake. Really. I turned around and it was gone.

But please notice that the Popeye Eye even carries over to cupcake eating.


A Little Bit of Sasha

More modeling pictures of course. My favorite is this first one. It cracks me up but it's actually a really good picture! LOL



A Little Bit of Eliana

Excuse the hair (It was post nap!)




FYI: In the reading pictures, she is actually pretending to read and POINTING to the words. Uh Huh!!!

I'm Back

I haven't been taking many pictures lately and the reason why is a long story, a long long story for another time.

So here you go.

2 Cuties (but that's just my opinion)

2 More!